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05-25-2004, 07:58 PM | #31 |
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Hayley, I don't have anything else to add because everyone else said it so well. I just wanted to say that you're not an idiot for following your heart. Unfortunately, sometimes when we do that, we get hurt. You're a wonderful young woman with a lot to offer the right guy.
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Hayley, I'm so sorry you're going through this. He doesn't realize what a loss on his part it is; you're a wonderful, smart, witty girl, with a big heart. Someday, some great guy will realize that. But like everyone said (especially loved Teri's analogy!), you're going to go through some crap to get to that point, and yes, each experience teaches you something new - usually the toughest life lessons are the ones that make you the strongest. At least you found all this out before you "gave yourself" to him, if you know what I mean. That would have been even more devastating! You're young, have fun with friends and enjoy your teen years; they go by so quickly! Remember, to appreciate the mountain top, you've got to get through the valleys. (Man, we're really using alot of cliches here, aren't we?!) God Bless you, sweetie, and you know we're all here to support you! Take care.
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Yeah, it seems like we all get hurt for loving someone. Life's weird sometimes. And thank you.
Yes, I do know what you mean. I would have been pretty devestated if that did happen, but I can't dwell on those things, I have promised to myself that I won't think of the "What if's", or regrettings things that have happened. I cared for him and loved him, he chucked it back at me for someone else, so I will wait until someone wants my love, because I do have a lot to give. There sure are alot of cliches, but they make it easier to understand. And I know that you guys are here for me, I really appreciate that, like you wouldn't believe.
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And when hes not looking.... you go for the knees! Then when hes on the ground thats your change to ATTACK
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Damn STRAIGHT
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Ooh. STRAIGHT. That just made me think of another reason he broke up with you. Maybe he's not.
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Lol!!!
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Hayley, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. What everyone's been saying is good advice. And Teri's right. He doesn't deserve you! Hang in there and know that we're here for you.
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That was the best thing I've read today. Thanks for making me laugh. And maybe youre right, maybe he's batting for the other team.... Ew gross. No that couldn't happen, he's left me for another girl. And I just learned today, that she is the slut at his school. She's probably just a player, looking for some sex. She gets around the school, why would he want to go out with her.
Thank you Dogstar, I know you guys are here for me and I really, really appreciate it.
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Hey, don't worry about her Hayley. You are so much better than her. If a guy doensn't see how pretty and sweet you are then he is blind!! One of these days, you are going to find someone who is going to love you for who you are.
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I hope so.
And I'm not worried about her, obviously she wanted him, so I guess she can have him.
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Well he is obviously the scum of the earth for picking her!
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Nah, he wasn't the scum of the earth, but he was pretty low for breaking up with me like that.
But, I'm over it now, my friends have told me that I don't need him and I will find someone better. He obviously wasn't worth it, love is a tough thing to deal with, but you guys are right, the things you experiance make you more stronger.
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Hayley, who is that guy in your avatar? He sure is some eye candy!
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I was wondering that too, Alisha! Hayley. I'm happy to hear you're feeling better.
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