I didn't quote you. This is the interpretation that I got from the stuff you previously posted. You were basically saying that the guy shouldn't get married because it was going to have a negative impact on his sons life. I don't go around trying to defend his every move. I just recognize that all of this judgemental bullshit is ridiculous and useless. How would like it if you were criticized for every breath you take? How would you like it if you were trying to change your life around and people didn't even have the decency to, for once, take you seriously?