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I totally agree with you Souldancer. It is better for the child to see them both happy, living separatly, then to live with them and fight all the time. They can totally see through it and it makes them so tense and nervous, and why would someone want to put their children through something like that if they could prevent it, they are their babies and it is their job is to make their little lives as worry free and as happy as possible. A lot of people feel you should stay together for the kids, but that is one that I don't agree with, because if there is nothing else between the two of you, except the children you have brought into the world, then give your children 100% and let them see you both happy, even if it is separate.