Blaming others; the result of Self Denial.
"An artificial season
Covered by summer rain
Losing all my reason
'Cause there's nothing left to blame.
shadows paint the sidewalk..."
"So I sat down for a while forcin a smile
In a state of self denial is it worth while
Sell my pity for dime, just one dime." PITY FOR A DIME, CREED
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RUqK7RUwrOs (nice comments)This song...woke me up this morning, helped me to remember some important things.
"Better to light one candle than to curse the darkness." Chinese proverb
"He has great tranquility of heart
who cares neither for the praises nor
the fault finding of men." Thomas Kempis
“No man is hindered by another; he is only hindered by himself. No man suffers because of another; he suffers only because of himself.”
― James Allen, Above Life's Turmoil
"When we blame, we give away our power." Greg Anderson
Power to
change is
in me and as long as I blame other people for the difficulties in my life, I remain stuck in the same destructive cycle as a helpless victim of circumstance. In blaming others, I have given away my power to
create a better tomorrow. Change starts in this moment, right now.
The power is omnipresent, whether I use it or not is up to me in a moment. Chaotic creation is happening, whether I understand it or not makes no difference, its still happening
according to natural law....with understanding and responsiblity for my actions I bring order to it.