[souldancer]

I know you are a sensitive, caring man, Mullet, but just in regards to the 'other guys' that do this double standard thing....How many pregnant guys have you known?! Human males have a small investment compared to the female! And, this is 2002 - not the agrarian or pre-industrial days when there were social roles. Both parties can now vote, earn a living and there is birth control. Times have changed.

Reproduction is what all life forms do to carry on the species, instinctual for most. However, with higher primates, you start to see that 'learning and culture' is important for them to know how to socially behave for courtships,and even to learn how to have intercourse. POINT being...I would like to think that human beings are beyond simple hormones and instincts and both sexes share in decision making - and BOTH SHOULD share responsibility and be concerned about contraception and rearing of the young!!!