[titan9]

Quote: (Originally Posted by Dogstar)

This is true, but the signs are there, sadly. Hopefully, he's not that type.

I'd like to hope so as well. I'd be more inclined to believe he was that type if this wasn't the first incident, but it apparently was. Or at least the first one reported to the cops. What we know is that he was drunk and high on pot. When people are high or drunk, they act differently than they normally would. He was impaired. I don't see how anyone can state he's an abusive, controlling person just because he came home drunk and high and threw a bottle at his wife's head. For all we know, this was a one time incident and he is not that kind of person. I'd prefer to give him the benefit of the doubt until he proves otherwise. And no, I am not at all condoning what he did because it was WRONG. I'm only saying the guy is innocent until proven guilty and, at this point, I don't think he's guilty of being abusive.