[titan9]

Quote: (Originally Posted by rabidgopher04)

Sounds like an abusive, controlling person trying to keep a lid on the situation.

Or it could be a guy who has a serious problem with alcohol. I don't see how you can judge him as being an "abusive, controlling person" when (a) this is the first report of him ever doing anything even remotely harmful to his wife and (b) you don't even know the guy personally.