...well, that's your choice and so it seems to be that of quite a few others, too...gotta say that in that case...it just leaves more for everybody else that didn't give up...
Oh, and btw, Tremontana...since you have said i should address you on the board instead of PM...
in reply to the PM i sent you...YOU were the one that made the "comment" of a personal nature...not me.
as you suggested...discuss the music...not the musician, a lot of people could do well to remember that the next time they decide to "just speak their mind"...take care, sweetie...