I agree with everything that you have said. I guess I have been so on the defensive with all that has gone on in the past few weeks I thought this could have been a shining moment for them.(even though they werent there*and I totally agree why they werent) I guess maybe I was taking it as a negative! I am so happy that they won!! They totally deserve both awards!!!! Now we are on to the GRAMMY'S!!!! Lets all pray that they will win there also!!