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Old 06-12-2004, 05:18 AM   #19
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Quote: (Originally Posted by 14Fuel) addicted2stapp It's hard to see your Mom go through it huh!?!?
Yeah, it is. It's not all of the time, but still, I hate it when she does get it. I worry about my brother the most though, he gets afraid when it happens, he's 12, and I try to keep him away where we can hear my mum arguing or crying, he just gets really upset. And that upsets me to see him that way.

It's weird, I can't really help her, because I don't know what to do. I can't explain what she goes through, but they are sort of like nervous breakdowns and she goes all ape, then gets really upset and locks herself in her room sometimes. I know that my mum and dads marrige is going through a rough time, it has been for awhile now, but I don't want to interfere with that, they have had problems for a while, and every now and then it seems like they will get a divorce. Money is a big issue for her, and whenever something goes wrong with money she gets upset. There are also other things that I don't know about, and I don't really want to know because it will just upset me. It's just hard to see her so upset.

Quote: (Originally Posted by 14Fuel) but she woke up one morning and couldn't remember her own name she was so depressed.
Wow, sorry to hear that. My mum isn't that bad, but she does get into a bad state sometimes and I worry that she might do something stupid.

But this all seems worse than it is. She is okay half of the time, it's just when something goes wrong she gets depressed, it's still hard though when she does get like that.
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