you see but there is no shame in it at all the only reason you feel shame over it after your done tuggin the bishop is because you were brought up by your parents and your religion to believe that it is wrong and dirty..... there have been some great case studies done on human sexuality one of the best reports is a book by
Judith Levine called "Harmful to Minors (the perils of protecting children from sex)" it is a total mind job and a good read at about 275 pages long you can easily read it in a week.
This contry has major misconceptions about sex and love for that matter people need to know themselves not the sexual doctrine of some religion becasue it is this that makes our county so disfunctional (imho)