it's not always a good thing (stalkers)

Yeah, I'm sure they'd get angry when you reject them. What with you being king of the world and all. ;)

yeah

Because I'm sure they all hoped to be queen of the world. :)

you're so right

Of course! :P

I'm queen of the world

Natalie is actually

Maybe your absence will make her heart grow fonder. Do what you can to get your ass to see her. Do something really nice for her. Make the fact that you are more of a challenge for her (b/c you are further away than the other guy) work to your advantage. Good luck!

Uhhh... seee we just recetly met. So there's me and another guy, and he's all over here cuz he's rigth there, and I see here every now and than... so she doesnt really get to knwo me, just him.

Well, you won't get anywhere unless you try. Give it shot. Make the effort and see what happens.

I try. But feels liek I'm fighting a loosing battle. We did go out after all, but no sure where it led.

Well, there is the telephone and the computer. You can still try talking to her and at least try to be friends and see where that leads. Maybe she doesn't know that you are really interested. And, not for nothing, but that defeatist attitude won't get you anywhere. You have to believe in yourself a little more. The only way you get what you want in this world is by going after it. Don't wait for things to happen. Make them happen...Sorry, if I sound like some sort of geeky motivational speaker, but I have learned that if you want anything done you have to do it yourself.

Well said, Dogstar!