My special year!!!
 

Well, after 3 tests I can say to all my friends here that my life is going to change ! I think that most of you here know that I was married for ten years , but unfortunately my ex husband got a serious disease (and even though he had already a daughter from another relationship) he got sterile, so our dream of having kids was 'deleted'...But now after our divorce I found someone ( like i call him here 'The captain of my heart' ) very special and as a result IM PREGNANT!!! :)
But nothing is perfect in this world...and Im almost sure that Ill be a single mother.. that guy is not married but he has a kind of 'commitment' now... I dont even know if ill tell him my news...I cant ruin his 'life' ...but ok..cause i have special friends and my family to give me support and love in this new chapter of my life .
As Im very very happy (even though worried cause of my age :more than 30!!) I thought about sharing this moment with all of you guys. since i really consider you as my virtual family...;)
So I d like to ask you to pray for me and for my baby oK ?

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...its a shame we dont have any international coffea so we can help celabrate this momeant of our lifes, well if he is captain :) im sure he will understand what captian, darlin im sure he will understand, and if he loves ya he will reach out understand this unexpeteble blessing , in your life,

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OH YES, My Ana, Ya Know Old HEAVENS ON FIRE , IS PRAYING FOR YOU, BLESSINGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS, da virtual family Hugs}}}} Xo Xo,

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Congratulations, Ana. You and your baby will definitely be in my prayers.

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thank u doggie and heaven ;)

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hers da rising sun goodness, haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, your welcome, my precious Ana

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Congratulations! I think you're gonna be a great mother.

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Congratulations Ana! Hope you have a wonderful new life with your baby.........Though i was wondering what would you prefer, a girl or a boy? Im just curious....

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Being an uncle and godfather myself, I know how great kids can be. Congratulations! I will be praying for both you and the baby that all goes well and the both of you have a great life together. :)

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congrats! that's awesome news!
you're right in saying the father has a commitment; but it shouldn't be to whatever other woman is in his life. it should be to you. perhaps i'm just naive, but it seems irresponsible to be uninvolved in the life of one's own child. in the very least, he should know so he can make that decision.

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Wel l... sorry for the belated reply...even though I feel 'ok' now...an ultrasound showed a placental problem which means that I have to rest on bed for a long time n also take medicines...thats why im not posting too much...

As for the father...he already knows, but, unfortunately ..he doest even care... hoe he changes his mind one day...

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:hugs: :hugs: Ana***these situtions seem to be growing everyday ...with absents of fathers and these unexpected preagnecys , but my best advice to give you my girl...dont look at the black and white of the sitution just look at as it as the gift from god inside you and the inner streneth that at mother is given when carring a child that no man could ever understand A b/c it was,nt meant for theme too, I Pray for you and your Baby Streneth And Solid Relationship And Blessings Abundantly

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Take good care, Ana, and be healthy! Pop in when you can.

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i'll be praying for you that he does

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Thank u guys for your words ...I really need them...

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your welcome sweet pea, anytime

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I just made an ultra today and it shows that baby is ok...btw I heard his heart and it was beating very fast...and the best thing is that the risk caused by the placent problem is getting low...

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thats awsome my girl, lots of hugs,

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That's great, Ana! Stay healthy.

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Congrats Ana:)

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Thank you girls!!! ;)

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:) :hugs:

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Woww, that's awesome! Congratulations Ana! :)

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thank you hayley...;)

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Are you feeling better, Ana?

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yes...;)

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shooooff .... good new!

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Woooow, that's great! (Honestly!)

You did the right thing telling the father.. I mean, I wouldn't like to grow up without knowing who my dad was and I can't even imagine being a father to a kid without knowing it. The kid will problably, eventually want to meet its dad someday. These things often works themselves out if you just give them time. At least you know in your heart you did what you could!

Anyhow, I'm very happy for ya, girl!

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Thank you, lith...:) but infortunatelly some guys dont even care about having kids ... btw he stopped talking to me when i said that i had decided to keep the baby... :(

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I'm glad you are feeling better, Ana. That sucks about his not talking to you anymore, though. I agree with Lith, better to let him know what the deal is. How he reacts is entirely up to him. To disregard the miracle of children is his very big loss.

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LITH! HELLO!! :D

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:( thanks for your support...when he s hurting me a lot...I really need it...thank u.

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Anytime, hon. :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

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Just made an ultrasound yesterday and it showed placenta "partial previa," it means placenta is lying unusually low in uterus, next to or covering cervix. But doctor sid tht during pregnancy progresses, placenta is likely to "migrate" farther from cervix and no longer will be a problem..but of course resting n take it easy and avoid activities , such as strenuous housework or heavy lifting...so i still need your prayers, guys...

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sorry, double post

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You got 'em, Ana. Stay safe and healthy!

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yes... please do take good care

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This morning im going to do an important exam -ultrasound ...and please please pray for my baby health...I was feeling a certain pression ...and the doc gave me another medicine to avoid abortion...and all that I can do is pray and ask you to do the same ...please.

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Ohhh, you are in my prayers.

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Definitely, Ana. I hope everything turns out OK. Hang in there.